Wadau…this ex of mine recently told she me is pregnant with my child…she declined to go DNA test akasema tuwachane.Sasa she is back …wants to reunite with me after admitting she aborted the child.What even shocked me is the way she takes abortionn very lightly
When a woman shares the negative aspects of her past with you so casually you can be sure she doesn’t respect you, and a woman who doesn’t respect you can never truly be attracted to you. Lakini wewe ni kichwa maji and it’s obvious you’re considering taking her back, so keep us updated when you test positive for HIV or walk in on her getting double-teamed by random men.
From a past thread you said she blocked you. What happened in between now and then that she decided to unblock you?
Did she contact you out of the blue to tell you about the aboshon?
For someone who was so hesitant about DNA testing, and so worried about being labelled a cheater, it seems quite unusual that they don’t have any qualms about doing an aboshon and the bad reputation emanating from that.
This is her setting you up to reject the relationship, so that she can have a moral high ground.
Am sweet talking her to accept Hiv test , which she accepted. I had to use my previous test results to show her am negative.
Kesho after going for Hiv testing, I will ghost her forever[ATTACH=full]345267[/ATTACH]
Two things clear from this, you really like her and she knows this. Once a woman knows you’ve well and truly fallen for her, hapo Ndio kubebwa ufala huanzia. Walk away from her bana, plenty of fish in the sea.
It’s possible:
1.There was never any pregnancy to begin with, it was just a scheme to be extorting money from you.
2. If there was a pregnancy, it was not yours and the real baby daddy alikataa hiyo pregnancy so she was looking for a beta provider to pin it on him.
3. She was testing you to see what you would do if she ever got pregnant. Ulianguka mtihani but she doesn’t want to break up na wewe.
Lakini pia dem anasema aboshon na cheating ni kitu kidogo ni kunguru sugu.
She expects you to accept things as they are. DNA mngefanya tu, alionelea aflush instead. Na badala ya kwenda kabisa, anarudi. Suggesting she expects that you will consider having her back. She thinks/knows you are slow. She would not do this unless she thinks you have a weak mind. And likely you have a weak mind (pole). People read us and react to us according to how we act. You must be acting slow in real life.
She was not pregnant. She blocked you because she was being fyekad by another dude. The guy has since exiled to Cherengani Hills Forest. Now you were unblocked and won the tender for emotional support and rescue.