My Wife Cheated On Me

My wife cheated on me which has completely devasted me. Deep inside I am finding it very difficult to cope.

We have one little kid (4 years) who I love dearly. The moment I found about my wife betraying me has left me with very deep wounds inside my heart. What I’m finding it very difficult now is whether I can live without her or not? And whether I can forgive her for what she has done to me and the kid? Deep inside I seem to still love her (i really don’t know) and the thoughts of her leaving me or me leaving her and going away is just eating me alive inside.
I am seriously confused, should i give her another chance or just call it quits.

you think you are hurt, but you are not. endelea kudinya yeye. she’s the best for you juu ushajua not to trust her, and you can always remind her she fucked up

she can live without you, leave.

Ukioa kubali tu it’s just a matter of time that the lady cheats and vice versa. Especially modern marriages. If you can’t cope with the fact just avoid marriage altogether

Pole ndugu. This is a very painful experience.

Forgot to add this…I once cheated sometime ago and she forgave me and I think she really loves me

you think wrong. we are all selfish

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She didn’t forgive you. She told you that, let you get comfortable, then some you some cold revenge. You can also forgive her but she will do it again and again with the perfect excuse of ‘you started it, you cheated first, you have to forgive me coz i forgave you’ till you are fully emasculated then she spits you out

Sijui umekua wapi coz there are things that are always repeated here by elders;

A woman is not capable of loving another human whom they don’t share a blood bond. She will show you affection coz to her you are a tool.

You cheat on a woman she doesn’t forget, it serves as a justification for her to do something in revenge however long it will take.

Pole mblo, nitumie number yake nimsomee the riot act.

Half time 1-1, game on, play on…

I have been busy lately but from now on i will spare some few minutes everyday kusoma what the eminent elders are saying

Kosa moja haiachishi mke…if she once forgave you why you shouldn’t return that favour? Life is complicated, forgive and forget.

Marriages za siku hizi ni cat and mouse games of cheating. She wont stop cheating, she will just be smarter. Soon or later you will need another woman in your life who will still cheat on you. You are damned if you throw her out, you are damned if you don’t. In shot, either way you are screwed, better the devil you know.

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@administrator make sure you wank before you make the decision to keep her around.

Ngoja @Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii @Karoga @Sambamba and other MGTOW wakuje kuku-recruit. You are the perfect candidate.

Brown boi usinitaje tena in this dump hole

Leta hekaya na contacts za bibi yako. You have obviously resigned to your fate.

@Mimi Huwa Namwaga Ndanii

Wipe the dust and move on. You are the one to decide kama you will leave her or keep her as your wife.

Marriage is hard, divorce is hard.

Sad reality is that cheating is a behavior. It is never an accident. She gave out the cookie knowingly.

Regrading pussy, just know that its your turn with it. Before you came into her life there were others (their turn), you were given (your turn), and she has given it out (their turn). Cycle goes on.

Remember: don’t stoop low.