My wife cheated on me which has completely devasted me. Deep inside I am finding it very difficult to cope.
We have one little kid (4 years) who I love dearly. The moment I found about my wife betraying me has left me with very deep wounds inside my heart. What I’m finding it very difficult now is whether I can live without her or not? And whether I can forgive her for what she has done to me and the kid? Deep inside I seem to still love her (i really don’t know) and the thoughts of her leaving me or me leaving her and going away is just eating me alive inside.
I am seriously confused, should i give her another chance or just call it quits.
you think you are hurt, but you are not. endelea kudinya yeye. she’s the best for you juu ushajua not to trust her, and you can always remind her she fucked up
Ukioa kubali tu it’s just a matter of time that the lady cheats and vice versa. Especially modern marriages. If you can’t cope with the fact just avoid marriage altogether
She didn’t forgive you. She told you that, let you get comfortable, then some you some cold revenge. You can also forgive her but she will do it again and again with the perfect excuse of ‘you started it, you cheated first, you have to forgive me coz i forgave you’ till you are fully emasculated then she spits you out
Marriages za siku hizi ni cat and mouse games of cheating. She wont stop cheating, she will just be smarter. Soon or later you will need another woman in your life who will still cheat on you. You are damned if you throw her out, you are damned if you don’t. In shot, either way you are screwed, better the devil you know.
Wipe the dust and move on. You are the one to decide kama you will leave her or keep her as your wife.
Marriage is hard, divorce is hard.
Sad reality is that cheating is a behavior. It is never an accident. She gave out the cookie knowingly.
Regrading pussy, just know that its your turn with it. Before you came into her life there were others (their turn), you were given (your turn), and she has given it out (their turn). Cycle goes on.