Mnaitishanga deni aje banae!

Wadau ukikopesha rafiki doo na akose kurudisha huwa mnado aje? I loaned a friend money that he was to return in a few days but now it’s almost a whole month bila kitu. Whenever I call him he doesn’t even bring out that topic. Na mimi huwa sijui kuitisha deni especially from friends. This earth is hard!

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Huyo ni gaidi. A responsible debtor should give you a good explanation why they can’t pay and provide new timelines. Mtu analenga story ni mtu hakuheshimu hata kidogo na hapangi kulipa. Confront him na uache uoga wa kusema hujui kuitisha deni.

Huyo rafiki yako ako hapa ktalk,ameona hii post,atakulipa usijali

Usikopeshane pesa. Hio ikienda na maji uache iwe lesson.

Kijiji Elders walisema only loan out as much as you’re willing to lose.

From a friend ni a bit easy, just ask him ‘ile mali niaje nataka kutumia’, ngojea hekaya. Always works for me hata kama ananipa half.

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Itisha pesa yako, heri huo urafiki uishe

Bana I’m used to loaning trusted guys who pay on time na kakitu juu. Personally I lack the confidence to ask for a loan from friends.

Maneno ya kukopesha marafiki pesa ni balaa.

Kuna nigga fulani (bado ni rafiki wa kupiga story) nilimkopesha doo years back, about 10k hivi. Hakuwahi rudisha, cha kushangaza ni kuwa bado huniomba pesa hadi sai. I always turn down his loan request, nashangaa kwani alisahau ile deni ingine.
So maneno ya kukopesha doo ni ku risk tu

I think that is what I will do.

Hii yangu imepile up pia kwa ingine unpaid. The problem seemed genuine.

Accept and move on na iwe funzo. You only loan out money you are wiling to lose.

You must be in your twenties, Now the chances of you getting back your money is slim to none, but learn to stop loaning, if you must okolea a friend give roho safi, if you can’t just flat out say no or use the tested kenyan way, tell them uko mbaya hata umefuliza

The problem is not the defaulter but you. You seem to have a problem saying no to people. There is nothing wrong ukiambia mtu hauna pesa hata kama uko na millions.

Akuna kupea friends loan. Umeambiwa apo juu you’re young and therefore too stupid. Mimi nko na issue na a special caliber of friends. Wanatext tu kuomba doo. Not saying hi or anything but only when they need money.

That guy has no respect for you at all. Yaani kabisaa!! Better start cutting links and counting your loses, both your money and the mongrel.

Kwa hii uchumi, kuavoid Mambo mingi usikopeshe mtu

Mi nililipwa yangu after one year. I realized i was too friendly when the issue arose,coming up with excuses when and why i need the money. Be direct,no due dates,fcuk the friendship atleast hatakuomba deni next time

Kwani huwa unakanda watu pale kwa kinyozi na madeni.
No wonder uliitisha hiyo deni cha nguvu hivyo