A man is judged with his resources.
First of all chances of kuwa na tattoo na both successful at the same time ni minimal because it shows you were busy pursuing the pleasures the world has to offer and not much serious with life.
However a few can still balance their lives and have tattoos but non-the-less a man is still judged by his resources.
A woman on the other hand is judged by her moral character
Reason? Loyalty is very important. A man could easily find himself siring kids of other men
You won't understand. You see some habits and traits predispose one to some reckless lifestyle. A tatoo is a permanent feature for the most part. It takes a special kind of person to make life long decisions based on a passing moment. I hope you have understood.