Women do not understand domestic violence especially in marriage set up. This thing is a demon. And it will not let you go because you leave your husband physically. If anything the experts say most women are killed as or after leaving the matrimonial home. At times in life we have to take very hard decisions and do very uncomfortable things. Imagine a thug is about to kill you and you as a woman have a gun, will you say I am a Christian I can’t kill him? Let’s not take violence and death threats lightly. Do what you need to do to stay alive even God will understand. This 27 year old was shot at her workplace by her pasta husband.
One psychologist who has authored a book on narcissism claimed that you can actually detect a potentially violent spouse/partner as early as during your first date. These people give off a certain vybe that you can easily spot as long as you have high social awareness.
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The author is called Sam Vaknin and his now famous book he authored is called ''malignant self love: narcissism revisited’'. He also does very informative videos on the subject on YouTube. Although I do not remember the episode, but I remember he once outlined the red flags you can easily spot with potential abusers during your first date. It was very revealing and informative. Here is the link to his YouTube Channel.
