Kids will always look for their dad


Village Elder

Dear Admin,
Am so devastated.
I am 45 and single mom, never married before. I have 3 kids 21, 18 and 15. The first two are boys while the last is a pretty young girl.
Now they have become very rude to me despite doing everything for them.
I try to be the be the best mom I can and my elder bros have been acting as good father figures to them.
The first one to show me rudeness was my second born who in 2019 while drunk called me a bitch. We went thru issues but eventually resolved the issues and he even apologized.
My first born has decided to drop out of the university and demands money from me kila wakati.
Now today my last born daughter, refused to take breakfast when I asked why she told me she wants to know who her father is. Then the boys also said they want to be told where their fathers are.
I have never shared with them what happened with their fathers but they were all failed relationships and I moved on.
I feel so low and dont know how to handle this.
My eldest son has even told me that they appreciate what I have done for them, but they have a right to know what happened to their fathers.
I would have asked this in other groups but I feel people are more honest and mature here.
I have been in my bedroom since morning, sijui niwaambie nini hawa watoto.

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hesabu ya why in the fùck afanye hivo
What exactly? The different fathers or not telling them kids about their fathers? Actual, now that I have thought it. Maybe its coz they are of different fathers that's why she has never told them. But one way or the other, she'll have to tell them.

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