Kenyan women nani aliwaroga? Is it the upbringing or is it a curse coz walahi nimeshindwa kuelewa. Ama ni wazimu because the definition of insanity is doing the same thing and expecting different results.
Koki RIP has been disappointed seriously by a man or men before. In 2013 she was in a partnership with some guy called Eddie Githinji they were engaged after she got his kid. Now ladies what happened to getting married first before you have children because nowadays the trend is that you have children before you even meet someone’s parents. Kwamboka taking Franky to meet her mum after giving birth to his kid. Do y’all think God or even our parents were fools to get married before having children?
OK. Fine I blame parents and especially mothers for not teaching their daughters these things but even after bad experiences with these men, you as an adult can’t learn from your mistakes? Or even other people’s mistakes? Why? By the time you get to a certain age you can’t blame lack of experience for your stupid choices.
I am not Madd at Koki for throwing her life away over a fugitive slinging poverty penis. I am Madd bcz her two kids who had only her since their dads weren’t in the picture will grow up with out a mom, at the mercy of relatives. And for what? Money? Nope. Just poverty penis. I am so angry. Talk about angry, bitter, black woman. My friends I am bitter. I hate seeing children suffering because of irresponsible parents. When you have kids they come first, not penis addictions. You have to sacrifice your sexual desires and put your kids FIRST. And please don’t tell me about dry spell bcz if there’s anything like that then many of us would be in the grave by now.
I don’t know how long women will be enslaved by penis addictions. A man pumps and dumps you, you become a single mother, the first time can be a mistake but a 2nd time? And then instead of waking up and focusing on your kids, you are still allowing men who have nothing to offer you to come to your house, later than you and you are housing them, to cheat on you and beat on you, use your car, use your credit cards like Maribe and Jowie. Is poverty penis worth you losing your life, losing your job like Maribe and your kids growing up with no mother?
I mean these women are not young, they have seen and been through these punk ass, beach ass, sorry ass, dead beat, broke ass men, who think they are God’s gift to women because they have a pin ass. They have absolutely nothing to offer but deck and to get you pregno with kids they won’t take responsibility for.
Mbona hatujipendi? Why do we hate ourselves. Play ourselves? Nowadays even my friends and especially the married ones I have told them I don’t want to hear your man problems because if you are really fed up you should have left already, if you are still in that toxic relationshit, carry your cross, don’t bother me because if I want a life of stress I would have married some no good brokeass demon like yesterday but because I know I am delicate and I am not cut out for man related problems I avoid, simple. Blocking works wonders.
Anyway, this is 2021 and some women still have not gotten the memo. Relationships are supposed to add value to your life. If you are worse off married or in a relationship than you were single, please reverse your car and know that God allows U turns. Go back to being single please for the love of God. Stop tormenting your single friends with your endless sob stories, if they wanted stress they would have joined you in relationshit hell.
As women, we must become responsible. Especially with kids in the picture. Let’s be wise. If you already messed up and you are a single mother, cut your losses and start over. Forget about men and focus on your life, your kids and your family, the people who actually give a damn about you.
Kusema kweli I’m really fed up with this stories. It’s so sad. Especially when kids are caught up. When they grow up they will be like my mom was killed by a boyfriend that’s why I had no mother growing up. Imagine. So unfair aki. Anyway RIP.