In the plot I stay, other day I encountered an issue that disturbs me to date. This plot sits in a very good locality, and around it is the best. Right now with the covid issue, quite a number of tenants vacated so it is 3/4 empty. It happens that most of the time i am the only one in the whole plot since the rest are out working, all bachelors and spinsters wanastay hapa.
Since we are always free with the neighboring plot occupants, the neighboring kids likes to come and play in this plot, more so on the verandas of these empty units. Since these verandas are kinda hidden, I was coming into the plot and I found one of the young boys sitting on a slab by the gate all by himself, and some instinct told me that something was not right with the way he was looking at me, then i heard some funny noise in one of the verandahs, and behold two boys wanataka kuchuniana skuma. I have never felt mixed reactions like that in my life, two young boys of roughly 7-10 years estimate, how!!! They managed to run away and never seen them again in that plot, only some others, nawaoneanga tu kwa umbali.
Mind you they also do play on company of other small girls most of the times, and it is like the rest of the kids are aware of that kind of habit. Their ages range from some 2 to 15 years. Whats the best way to approach such an issue wadau hawa dogo wasaidiwe mapema ama nijipe shughuli tu? This post is due to the reported high number of teen pregnancies reported today.
If you have any brains in your head you steer clear of that issue na usiwahi ongelesha watoto wa ploti tena. Usiende kujifanya mjuaji ama disciplinarian ya mambo hayakuhusu na inahusu watoto especially as a man. You would have to be incredibly stupid to get involved in such issues juu kugeuziwa ni dakika moja tu. You are a man. On such issues you see no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil and give no fucks.
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In this NAIROBI, shughulika na watoto wako pekee. Ikienda sana let it end at your sibling’s kids. Your nephews and nieces, hata wa extended family wachana nao kabisa. And we have said this many times lakini nyinyi hamskizi, it will end in tears!
Watoto wa wenyewe wanakusumbulia nini? Hama hapo hata, otherwise you will be framed very soon ukiendelea na hio umoral cop umeanza. We are in the age of individualism and every kid’s responsibility starts and ends with their OWN parents. Umeniskia? Niwambiwa? Ni waigwa? Iwinjo? Wewe sio chifu ama Ezekiel Mutua and that should never be a concern to you! Na usijaribu hata kuongeleshanga watoto wa wenyewe wewe. Hii kitu tumeambiana mara nyingi and it has messed many innocent men out there who still thinks raising kids is still a societal responsibility.
Even teachers responsibility siku hizi ni kufunza na kuexamine. Only that. They call it TAGH (Teach And Go Home). Discipline ni kazi ya mzazi. It’s what it is and it’s where we are as a society. You either fit in or suffer! Wachana nao kabisa.
Mimi nililelewa kwa a spacious compound where we weren’t exposed to the filth I see with hawa watoto wa ploti. That’s how I intend to raise my kids if I ever have any. I won’t take chances. Compound, cctv, na RFID chip kama zitakua commercially available. I ain’t taking chances. Wakifika teen/adulthood wanaeza fanya vile wanataka.
wachana na kitoweo ya @Kimakia a ya siku sijazo
Hii story ilifanya siyuko in good books with my cousin. His child, a two year old kid, was talking to her mom. When told to do something, the kid would extremely rudely reply “wachana na mimi usinisumbue” or somethingto that effect. I know at two years she’s too young to comprehend anything but bad habits stick like a stain and they set a precedence. So one day I playfully replied ‘usiongeleshe watu wakubwa ivyo.’ My men, the mom had already chipped in akanishw nizae mtoto wangu ndo nimuongeleshe ivyo. Kutokea iyo siku mimi ata nione mtoto wa mtu anafanya mimi I don’t care, unless they life is in danger, I see no evil, speak no evil and give absolutely zero fucks.
Na ata juzi juzi tu there was a clip going around of children having sex. Say whatever you wanna say but I blame such behaviors on single mothers, nothing else.
Even men who behave like simps. And by the way, we have so many men who are married but gay in their other life. They are so many but married to conceal their real selves. Sasa hao watalea watoto vipi? Parenting nowadays is a conglomeration of two idiots joined together by circumstances. Mwanaume mzima anashinda dunda and the wife ni kunguru ama hata ni a bitter single mother. It will end in tears! I taught high school after finishing form four, just a few years ago and the kind of parents I saw wacha tu. Na watoto wao hawafai kuulizwa kitu otherwise you will lose your job or suffer legal consequences.
Na ndo bado some people are talking if marriage
There is something wrong with singomathahood. Last week I was told of a boy I forget how old whose mother works night shift. Is a nurse. She leaves the boy (first born) to take care of his sisters 15 and 13. The girls are now both found to be pregnant and he is responsible.
First the basics. Babies come into this world knowing nothing. Everything they know they have learned from this world. I know people who support gayism don’t agree and that’s fine but this is what I believe.
So obviously those children are learning these things from somewhere. Cut off those avenues that are corrupting these children and they will grow up to become healthy and normal Kenyans.
I would stay away kabisa like you have been advised. These single mothers, embarrassed by their poor parenting skills, might accuse you of something and you know very well how FIDA is always waiting to destroy the life of Kenyan men.
That screenshot has been in circulation for like three or more years now. Still, single mothers are complete failures when it comes to raising their children.
@nobert
Your narrative summed up in the old African proverb that say, “It takes a village to raise a child”, is rapidly being replaced by a “Don’t tell me how to raise my child” attitude.
Well…way back when we ware kids, It did not matter who your mother was, your next-door neighbor would Whip your **s just as much as your mother or father would. But today people keep themselves to themselves and are afraid to intervene because they don’t know how people are going to react. But let me give you a simple Advice …If a child is misbehaving in your plot against the plot rules… Wambie, ‘‘We don’t like that behavior in this plot’’, and that is probably as far as you can go.
In my campus days a dude with a soft spot for kids parted ways with 50k to a single mother who accused him of molesting kids wakienda kuwatch this dj afro movies kwake, watu wa ploti walimbembeleza asireport akahama after receiving the cash. Whether the accusations were true or not nyumba yangu ni no go zone for neighbors kids from that day.
Well elders, like i said, I acted like I hadn’t seen or heard anything. Never discussed the issue with anyone in the plot. I minded my fuckin business. Sometimes silence is the best remedy.
Noma Sana but where do the Boyz get that gayyyyyyyyyy literature ndio waanze Hizo Tabia
Ukicheza utagueziwa uambiwe ni wewe unachunisha watoto skuma.
Na hao watoto waletwe kama victims ama witnesses.
Our society is rotten to the core
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