I am for paying all the bills. Your financial stability is none of my business as long aa as you pay ALL my bills. Tusisumbuane. Me sijazoea finances related stress. Consult my avatar and my Skiza tune for further details. Skiza tone yangu ni no romance with out finance.
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Wanaume, allow me to ask this. Mnapenda sana kuattack any woman who says she wants a man who is “financially stable” Mimi nashindwa as a man do you really want a woman to feed you? How practical is it and for how long do you intend to stay feeding from a woman’s sweat? Boyshaod mnatuangusha! Unataka mwanamke akulishe? How will you be the man in the relationship if you cannot afford to feed your family? Wacheni jokes.
My belief is that relationships are between adults. An adult isn’t just someone over 18, it’s someone who can take care of themselves without relying on others. A man should be able to cater for his expenses. A woman should also be able to cater for her expenses. If I, as a man, pay a bill or two for you, it isn’t because you can’t pay it yourself, it’s because I want to. A woman should also pay a bill or two for her man, not because he can’t but because she wants to. Hii mambo ya “My money is my money but his/her money is our money” ndio inaleta shida. In a dual income household, both partners should contribute both financially and otherwise. Heshima idumu.
Long time ago women were viewed as inferior to men
men also held primary powers and predominant roles both social political and economical
and women recognised the importance of that…untill now…
women dont respect their spouse any more but view them as their equal
, lack of loyalty and trust breaks marriages hence an increase in number of divorce
in turn some of the women raise indiscipline men and sissies ( weak men) …
…and thats where most of the lot you complain about come from :D:D
Nobody will view you as equal when you are the one paying bills. Respect comes from paying bills. Ukilipa bills you will never hear anything from me. Why should I rock the boat na bills zinalipwa?
No, dead in the sense that it’s just paper, or digital money. Look at it this way: what you do with money–moved by love for the person or things you spend it on–is what gives it life and meaning.
The things I spend my money on have nothing to do with love. Most of the time. I am not working for money to sustain people I supposedly love. Am a shopaholic so I would not put love and spending in the same sentence. Its when a man is spending money on me that I read love. Platonic, eros, agape. There’s people I love a great deal and I haven’t spent money on them. There’s people I have spent some money not much on but I could care less if they drop dead today. So love without money is dead only applies to men not women. Bcz the only way men can express love is by giving. Women can express their love in a million ways. The least of which is money.
Ukweli usemwe, it is POVERTY that makes a woman come with many financial demands. Such women call themselves boss ladies, but they are merely sophisticated beggars
Oh, I know this is an aside to your thread but let’s stretch your imagination a little bit. I was using the word “love” loosely, in the broadest and most impersonal sense possible. Even a shopaholic narcissist (or a narcissistic shopaholic) expresses love for self in buying things, as a painter expresses love in painting or a musician does in singing. I’m not sure what we can call that. Taken that way, every form of joyful giving is a form of love.
Women have alot of different things to give, they listen, they love, they comfort, they cook, they make you laugh, they give you perspective, and they give hugs, men are kind of handicapped so they give money.
Women have alot of different things to give, they listen, they love, they comfort, they cook, they make you laugh, they give you perspective, and they give hugs, men are kind of handicapped so they give money.
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Now that’s not even a hit below the belt. It’s a nasty kick in the nuts and a very unfair one.
Ok watched the clip: Michael Douglas and all the things “happening” between him and the blonde lady that are not really being said, notably the twisting handshake. Your point?
Well the truth is kind of a kick in the nuts. Women are endowed by their Maker with many gifts. Do you think that a man could raise 40 kids single handedly? Like the Ugandan mama? They have a limitless reservoir. Every time I feel down in the dumps or limited I always remind myself that those reservoirs are in me.