In January wife told me that her younger siz will be coming to Nairobi to attend college. Her request was for me to assist in getting a hostel around main campus uon. After a week of searching was able to get YWCA. A very nice secure and clean hostel for 15k a month. I paid one month plus deposit.
The younger siz came, she went to college and registered for first year, but there has been no sign of her moving out of the house to the hostel. I have reminded wife enough times that I have already paid for the hostel and the payment is going to waste but she never answers.
This young girl anamaliza resources buana. Wifi ya nyumba nawekanga unlimited ya Telkom but sikuizi fair usage policy inanyongwa by 17th or 18th, sijui anafanya nini na internet.Tangu uhunye afunge kanairo, anabaki kwa nyumba the whole day halafu anafanya online classes jioni. Nikiweka token ya 150 units hailast for two weeks, within 5days nisha anza kuskia warning sounds za token. All this because anawatch telly from 10am akiamka mpaka jioni just before we get home from work. Nikifika home nikishika console ya PS5 nguyaz naskianga ikiwa moto, meaning someone has been on it for over 6hours.
Why was I requested to sort mambo ya hostel if they both new she was coming to live with us? Why didn’t wife just tell me straight up that siz wake anakuja Nairobi colle na ataishi na sisi?Hii story imenisumbua coz mtu kuja kuishi kwa nyumba is a big decision yenye watu wanafaa ku discuss. Am I being petty nikizusha? Leteni advice wadau. If the only vocabularies you have in your advise is ‘beta male’ and ‘simp’ nyamazisha kinyambis.
Ambia bibi aende ymca yeye mwenyewe. Pesa yako haiwezi potea.
Why couldn’t she stay on campus?
seems you have poor communication with your wife, from the word go , before paying for the hostel, you should have talked to your wife.
I guess your wife knows of your escapades to lanyes, that’s why she doesn’t take you seriously, after all, she knows that 15k will have been lost to lanyes.
You might think she doesn’t know but she knows that’s why she doesn’t bother answering you .Talk to her period , no other short cut na uwache lanye
Propose to the sister umuoe kama mke wa pili
Si umwambie alipie expenses zake na salary yake if she wants her to stay so much
Kabisa, alafu abaki akamue sistake kwani iko nini?
Tomba huyo mdogo wake…15k a month is way cheaper than what you spend on whores.
Zile resources anatumia ni pesa kidogo than io 15k monthly utakuwa wamlipia hostel, wacha akae kwako. Angekuwa anafanya nini hostel na siku izi hakuna shule? Unataka wife wako aanze kuketewa case za ball na abortion na drugs? Being a family man, izi ni zile mizingo utabebeshwa, beba tu,
Mwanaume analalamika nini, your wife is indirectly telling you ’ sasa una kuma mbili kwa nyumba , will this stop you from whoring
Ilifanya blunder kulipia hiyo hostel in advance. If she was coming to Nairobi, angekaa kwenu for sometime before getting acquainted with city life alafu mfukuze yeye kiplan. Just allow her to stay in the house but with some rules e.g:
- No watching TV the whole day.
- She should help in the chores
- She should limit her time on the phone and laptop.
Hii ni delicate enigma balancing inlaws in your life.
Summon your wife for a meeting read her the riot act. If you don’t do this, all her relatives will be living in your house at some moment of their lives either when joining college or job hunting. They will also likely have a very low opinion of you since you will be a point of discussion in their conversation. Kikiumana sana call your inlaws na uwaambie, watakuchukia at first but finally sense will prevail. Watado nini
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Kumbe majamaa wanaguzanga console kupima temp kwanza kabla hawajawasha?
Mimi najitolea kumpeleka huko hostel…lakini engima hata picha ya makucha ya shemeji hakuna?
Take three days leave.
Day 1 jipe shughuli until evening or just before wife arrives take your gaming pad and call your sis in law to play with you. Wife akifika apate mnacheza.
Day 2, repeat of day one.
Day 3 same script
Day 4. She’ll be at YMCA.
TRUST ME
… join them.
Best advice on the issue, THREAD CLOSED.
Mpatie mimba… naskia luoz mnaeza marry blood sisters hadi ata mlale bed moja…