Elders if a lady you have been dating for a year plus admits to cheating on you with her colleague, even worse, one that you had raised concerns about…what is the next course of action?..this is a lady you live with and have met each others’ parents.
I have also been eating out though sijawahi shikwa.
Update: i am in my local sipping poison and murderous thought are going on in my head…thinking of going to her workplace kuvuruga huyo jamaa…Ananikulia aje khupipi to be?? the disrespect??! ( I have come to my senses, the negro is not worth the fight)
I can see some of you here rejoicing thinking you are Alpha, siku yako itafika and your world as you see it will change. Ni kwa Hayo tu…utanipta hapa Harry’s Tavern.
The question should be how do you chase a lady you have been dating for a year plus admits to cheating on you with her colleague, even worse, one that you had raised concerns about…what is the next course of action?..this is a lady you live with and have met each others’ parents.
A lady cheats, atembee. Dont think twice. You are loosing your frame.
The confidence to reveal this information means she thinks of you as paka imenyeshewa. She knows you can’t do shit. If you don’t throw her ass out then it will be full blown madharau moving forward.
Even if you forgive the shit, it will eat you out slowly wasting a lot of time while praying it works out. Before you realise you are not in love anymore, its a year down, trapped with a kid. Thats why people bounce once they get the news.
There’s no other option, but to drop her immediately.
Peasant in Chief
hi ni noma.been there; we had a 5 month old son…Had to let her go…ata ukijaribu kijisahaulisha that thing eats you up…sex with her can never be the same again coz your ego will be so crashed …and chances are she will do it again and will obviously never respect you. …(unless you believe in miracles and Divine interventions)
You are the problem. Stop simping and go fix yourself.
Am trying to comprehend the problem here sioni… it’s a blessing in disguise for you to be free and run the streets
Bro, some of you nigga take simmping to a whole new level… bitch be testing if you are the shit na uko apa unauliza maswali za kishenzi…
My friend, this is the highest form of disrespect from a woman. Had you paid dowry??
When a woman confesses to you that she cheated, hapo amekudharau vibaya sana.
Usiwahi danganywa ati ni guilt.
If you forgive her, atakudharau ata kabisa.
You will be meffi in her eyes.
And yes, she will go back to cheating.
Akishanza zile za “Oooh, I was tipsy. It just happened.”
Alafu aanze crocodile tears.
Kwanza huyo colleague atampitia mara kadhaa mpaka achoke na yeye.
Kwanza kama huyo kunguru alipeana blow job kwa ofisi alafu akirudi jioni unamwambia “Hey baby!” unampiga kiss kwa mdomo like the simp that you are.
Alafu akirudi home uta-proceed kulamba hiyo kuuma saa hizo colleague alisha mwaga ndani the very same day.
Stop simping nigga!!!
Blame your name;
Her colleague must ve been Screaming & Deepthroating her!
Pole buda…
Drop her like the piece of shiet :meffi: she is.
@Dothraki screamer ukisoma hii the kunguru is not supposed to spend an extra night kwako…akanyange kubwa kubwa…unless umewekwa!
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My first reaction was to go to her job and beat that guy like a burukenge but nikajua it will not help…we have not talked since last night…nililala kwa couch. Nimeamkia Local pub drinking my poison trying to figure this all out…Saidia na wisdom juu sitaki kuenda jela leo.
You are a fool if you have to seek advice on this issue. Beta Male ghasia*
Like someone above said, you are the problem not the lady.
The fact that you are here asking what you should do to a cheating woman shows how much of a simp you are. Fix yourself
THIS.
I wouldn’t come here for advice. You aren’t a man enough…wacha hii mutu unaishi na yeye, kwangu ata akiwa girlfriend na afanye na aniambie upuz kama hii kitu inakua tucker tucker natoanga kwangu kwa miguu…shiet. And she has the courage to face you with this shit…man …you must be the one disadvantaged in that rela,…either you are depending on her/family. Wanaume watafute pesa zao wakue free bana…