There is this lady i had been talking with like for about 2 months . All was going well mpaka she started growing cold beginning of January hivi, even she started not picking my calls. She even suggested hooking me up with her friends or relatives coz ati she said i seem to be in a hurry for relationship and that i am such a good person . Because of that message… … i stopped talking with her and and cut off communication with her completely. Fast forward the other day she contacted me saying she will be kwa town where i live and work this coming week and she wants to say hi to me.
How should i deal with this? Is it a invitation/through pass signal? And why are ladies this confusing?
Ladies are not confusing. She is playing games with you juu amekupima akaona wewe ni fala. The fact that you need advise on such an obvious situation only confirms wewe ni fala. Offering you any advise is a waste of time. Continue simping.
Akikuja umkamue hadi mkia then umwambie you are not in a hurry for any relationship…
Wewe inakaa haujawahi ulizwa ukiwa juu ya mtu… What are we?.. Are we in a relationship?..usjali your time will come… keep learning the ropes.
You are a nice guy. Angalia yule mtu wa anajiita forest monkey alipost kitu inaweza kukusaidia
io two months msichana alikua ready kukupatia vile unataka, hadi akashindwa unangojea nini. wewe inakaa unataka relationship kwanza then kuma badaye,
Women love to be chased…when you are in persuit alafu uwache kuchase all of a sudden, they take it as if you’ve rejected them.
So watajaribu some tacticts ndo urudi kusshow interest tena, ata kama hawakutaki.
Whether you will get her or not entirely depends on your approach. Usi simp ama ukue needy…ama uonyeshe ati umemtambua sana
Actually agree to meeting her and then don’t show any interest at all, act as if she is one of your guy friends…in fact tell her of a mythical 10/10 chic who you are dating and tell her how she is pushing you towards marriage lakini hutaki kuanza familia. You’ll see how the odds will change to your favour. But ukisimp unarudi square one.
Dude you have too many relationshits probs. Time to take a back seat methinks. Umelemewa na hii game. Not for the faint hearted.
Kwani do you meet them online?
Akikuja kamua yeye hadi akauke. Kisha ufike kiambu rd hapo karibu na shark palace kuna gate ya kuingia Karura forest. Ingia hapo ndani daddy na usitoke hadi the coast is clear
Nope… I guess you still recalling others i was speaking on behalf of my friends
Mwambie directly what you want so that she does not waste your time when she comes to see you. Na akianza mind games show her the door soonest.
Breadcrumbing
When the “crush” has no intentions of taking things further, but they like the attention. So they flirt here or there, send dm/texts just to keep the person interested, knowing damn well they’re staying single.
Breadcrumbers will send you sporadic messages, slide into your DMs here and there, or throw you a like on Instagram just frequently enough so you don’t lose interest, but not too much so the relationship actually moves forward.
So, why do people really breadcrumb? There are lots of possible reasons. “There’s breadcrumbing when you’ve broken up with someone but you don’t want to let them go; there’s breadcrumbing as a way of keeping a dating prospect on ‘hold,’ Or there’s breadcrumbing as a kind of game: when a person is ‘not interested in you, but interested in themselves staying relevant to you.’”
Man’s a simp.
Sioni ikifika kukamuana, hiyo kunguru inataka free lunch/dinner ama coffee tuuu before she crawls back to her shell again
Free advice:- good guys only win in the movies, in real world don’t bother with that “good guy” bullshit to ladies. Kamua yeye Hadi atii. Then let her decide if she wants you or not. Ukikula yeye vizuri you wouldn’t need to chase her, she will be chassing you.
OP ukikosa kufanya vile umeambiwa hapa, huna akili.
THIS IS 100% TRUE AND SHOULD BE PINNED; instead of stupid posts I’ve seen sijui kutoka when
Don’t be like a mongrel that eats it’s vomit…you already cut off communication and now I want to go back there?
Is there shortcomings or problem per se, meeting a partner online? Let’s say Facebook, just a regular normal chic?
Atamkamuaje kama hata kumu"access" imeshindikana
shes pregnant