Your intentions are noble, but such intentions need to be kept secret. Otherwise that will now incentivize the mother to use the kids as a weapon in bad times. The painful truth of long term relationships is that women will always look for how they can get to you mentally, and you must make sure...
Don't waste time wishing ill on women. They will likely get whatever they want in relationships. There is always a beta male willing to rescue them from a bad situation
Huyo Wabosha ni mcute but sometimes anakaa mtoi sana, ata watu wanaeza kukushuku ukionekana na yeye mahali. Huyo Carrie Wahu kama hiyo ni nywele yake nashoro, I'll give it to her based on that